I wouldnt talk about the crush to him. I'd get to know the crush. That way if there is something there, you will know it, the crush will know it and you may hang out and date. Don't Go by the friend. Find out yourself. Never leave your love life up to others.
Why is your friend getting involved? I had a married friend very ticked off I wanted to date someone. It really shocked me. Sometimes friends have alterior motives. He might want to date you. He might not be interested in dating you, but may not like your focus on a new guy. That would take you away from paying attention to him. And talking about a crush, could make him feel like he doesn't measure up to this other guy. Or jealous crush is good looking. Saying the crush hates you is a bit much. Because if you knew the crush, you would know the answer. Since you dont, you havent talked to the crush much. He obviously wants to make sure you stop focusing on the crush. Or wants to make you feel bad about yourself, just because he can. He doesn't care he hurt your feelings. The crush might hate you, but if they don't know you, why would they? Not such a good friend. A friend who is manipulative, is a frenamy. Not a friend. I see a red flag by his saying crush hates you. Seems very harsh. He's got a motive there.
Disregard you friend. Until you get to know the crush. I believe your friend has ulterior motive. I'd try to talk to the crush when your friend isn't around.
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
Disregard what the friend said. Find out for yourself. I don't think that's such a good friend.
You won't know if your crush hates you, until you talk to them. They cant get to know you from a distance. Is there a problem you won't talk to the crush? If you won't, you may have limerence. It is where you dream of dating a person, but don't have the guts to ever talk to them. The only way to do it, is to start talking to them. Every time you see them. Be happy and upbeat.
